ONLY BY PRIDE COMETH CONTENTION
Let me start by throwing a bomb shed, don’t crucify me yet just hold on and read carefully. ‘’Pride is not just exalting yourself beyond expectations but also debasing yourself beyond expectations’’. When you exalt yourself above normal, feeling better than others like we are on top of the world and no one can stop us, that is pride quite alright but that is just one the characteristics of pride. Timidity, shyness, low self-esteem is also a manifestation of pride. Pride is not only thinking we are better than others; pride can be thinking we are worse than others or just being self-conscious. It doesn't matter if self is always exalting itself or if it's debasing itself. It's all self-centeredness, which is pride. Only by pride cometh contention meaning pride is the only thing that causes contention. (Contention in other words is strife, dispute, anger, disagreement etc.) It's not what others do to us that make us angry; it's the pride insi...