SAEFEXPERIENCE

We find someone to blame, For the problems that we cause, Yet everything stays the same, My friend, please take a seat and pause. If you knew the world was going to end tomorrow, Will your heart be at peace or filled with sorrow? Over time, I’ve learned to do this a few different ways, My favorite way is fairly simple, Too much stress and worry I've set ablaze, Keep your mind in the middle. I believe it’s something you may find beneficial, Afterall most of our problems are superficial. There is no defeat except from within, Ask not for more riches but more wisdom, A life that I am making to begin, With which to make wiser use of the riches. Don’t be without love so you won’t feel dead, Free your mind and your heart from its shades of red.                                             -Saefhenry Osas

My first issue with feminism is the name. You can’t ask for equality of the sexes and have bias for one of the sexes. What you would end up doing is creating reverse oppression because the women will grow so strong and oppress the men, and the cycle will continue. In finding my path, I first blamed women, because in my short time of existence, women raised me and most of the people around me. They chose that I cook and clean while my cousins played. They said “you are a woman, no man will take this from you”. They said “with this your attitude, you won’t find husband”, “your opinions are too strong for a lady, you need to listen more when your man is talking”, “ Don’t buy a big car or live alone o! You will chase men away” “why are you not married yet?” “You need to learn to cook o” women told me all these but never did I hear them tell the male kids around me the same thing. Instead I heard “you are supposed to be strong for your sisters”, “are you not a man? Why are you crying?” “Th